Friday, October 11, 2013

Links of the Week 10/11/13

I have so much to share today! Give yourself time and read everything. It will be worth it!

Oct. 9, 2013 was John Lennon's 73rd Birthday. Peace, John. 

31 pictures that will make you smile...and most of them did.

I don't even eat oatmeal, but this recipe for chai pumpkin oatmeal sounds delish.

Sriracha Mac & Cheese, you had me at hello...plus, here's a whole mac & cheese cookbook.


Cool idea for that dinner club I keep saying I'm going to start...Around the World in 7 Recipes

If you're fudgelling through this work day like me, then you'll enjoy this list

I WANT THIS HOUSE!
You're right, Don't Date a Girl Who Reads, we ruin everything!


Food Hacks. Some of these are great ideas!

NSFW: but this Blurred Lines parody is LOL funny!

This will NEVER get old. I love Sesame Street. :)

Very interesting article on Emotional Intelligence. My parents and teachers need to read this. 

A new Fratellis album!!!! YES! Love this band. 

Happy Weekend People! 



Monday, October 7, 2013

Audio book Review: "Bossypants" by Tina Fey

Bossypants

by: Tina Fey read by: Tina Fey

From Goodreads: Before Liz Lemon, before "Weekend Update," before "Sarah Palin," Tina Fey was just a young girl with a dream: a recurring stress dream that she was being chased through a local airport by her middle-school gym teacher. She also had a dream that one day she would be a comedian on TV.

She has seen both these dreams come true.

At last, Tina Fey's story can be told. From her youthful days as a vicious nerd to her tour of duty on Saturday Night Live; from her passionately halfhearted pursuit of physical beauty to her life as a mother eating things off the floor; from her one-sided college romance to her nearly fatal honeymoon—from the beginning of this paragraph to this final sentence.

Tina Fey reveals all, and proves what we've all suspected: you're no one until someone calls you bossy.

(Includes Special, Never-Before-Solicited Opinions on Breastfeeding, Princesses, Photoshop, the Electoral Process, and Italian Rum Cake!)

My Review: Oh My God. Where do I start? This book and Tina Fey are so awesome. I can't imagine having read it any other way than hearing Tina read it herself. The under-her-breath insights and hearing the sarcasm exactly where it should be, well it was just perfect. From the very beginning telling about becoming a woman and all it's horrors to her near death experience on her honeymoon mid-book I couldn't stop laughing. I know I got some strange looks between here and Greensboro and back while I lost myself in "Bossypants." 

If you ever need advice on life ask a comedian. If you can, ask Tina Fey. She's funny, yea we all know that, but she's also one of us. She's not ashamed of telling her coming up stories either. This isn't a book about how talented and successful she is. It's about what an every day woman has to experience to appreciate opportunity when it arises. The chapter Peeing in Jars with Boys probably wasn't meant to be hysterically funny but I was in tears. She's new to SNL and trying to coach Sylvester Stallone on enunciating during his sketch. Really? Who and how would someone go about this? Being the new girl on SNL must have been one hell of an experience.

Learning about improv was fascinating. I really did learn something. Not that I'm going to run out for open mic night or anything but she's brilliant. Handling herself in a male dominated industry says it all I think. Fey isn't modest about telling you who and what tried to stand in her way. 

Oh! Don't let me forget to mention parenting memories from Tina Fey. My Oh My! You can't not read this book...er, listen to it. Seriously. Drunk midgets and dysfunctional families. That's all.

My Recommendation: I could write about everything I loved about Bossypants for hours. So as to not give it all away just go get the audio book. NOW. GO! I'm sure every public library has it. If you need $1 for a library card...well, I'm a broke bitch, but it will be worth it. I'll send you a buck. 

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Book Review: "Ender's Game" by Orson Scott Card

Ender's Game


by: Orson Scott Card

From Goodreads: Government drafts genius child Andrew "Ender" Wiggin to defend against alien Buggers, but rejects sadistic brother Peter and beloved sister Valentine. In orbiting Battle School, rigorous military training, skill and natural leadership elevates boy to isolated position, respected by jealous rivals, pressured by teachers, afraid of invasion.

My Review: I'll just start by saying that this is my first science fiction novel. I've read a few dystopian short stories, but I really have nothing to compare to. I enjoyed Ender's Game. I don't think I'll change my preferred genre, but this story captured my attention for a few hundred pages. I started off slow, but I can't NOT finish a novel. My second confession is that a friend lent this book to me a couple years ago and I just now read it. Is that procrastination or what? 

I was pretty hesitant regarding the topic of manipulating children as the story does. At the same time I was completely enthralled in Ender's determination, self-awareness, and skill. He really is a prodigy, in this alternate reality. I was cheering him on against the teachers the whole time. I enjoyed the insight into Ender's theory of battle and his will to beat the game. The psychology of the game was definitely the high points for me. 

The ending...that was where it lost me. First, the shocking, or not, but for me the shocking victory and it's consequences. Then, the habitation of the new world. The story was written well enough that I finished. Did I love it? Eh, I finished it quickly, but I think I'm still confused as to my feelings. Mostly because I can't compare Ender's Game to anything and also the fact that I know nothing about how a science fiction novel should play out, I have to say "YES."

My Recommendation: I'd recommend Ender's Game to anyone that wants to dabble in science fiction for the first time. Based on critics and awards I'd say it's a sure shot for science fiction readers as well. I'm really glad I finally read it. I'm looking forward to the movie. I'm excited to see how the film will portray Ender's diligence in falling into his birthright.

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Saturday, October 5, 2013

Book Review: "Me Before You" by Jojo Moyes

Me Before You



By: Jojo Moyes

From GoodreadsLou Clark knows lots of things. She knows how many footsteps there are between the bus stop and home. She knows she likes working in The Buttered Bun tea shop and she knows she might not love her boyfriend Patrick.

What Lou doesn't know is she's about to lose her job or that knowing what's coming is what keeps her sane.

Will Traynor knows his motorcycle accident took away his desire to live. He knows everything feels very small and rather joyless now and he knows exactly how he's going to put a stop to that.

What Will doesn't know is that Lou is about to burst into his world in a riot of colour. And neither of them knows they're going to change the other for all time.

My Review: I have to first give credit to my book club for contribution to these thoughts. I usually write my review before we discuss the book but since that didn't happen and we had a great discussion of Me Before You, I give them credit as well. And thanks!

I think we all agreed that the book was not what we expected. Whether it was expected or not, it was a great book. The characters heavily outweigh the rather dark subject matter. Clark, er Lou or Louise, was witty in her naive and innocent way. Her unknown independence and confidence really created the zest that made her character so likable and loved. Clark discovers so much about herself along the way and her determination to affect Will seemed a little encouraging to me. Perhaps not to everyone, but the do-gooder in me couldn't help wanting to run out and become a carer. Hopefully, not as hopeless a situation. And now that I write that I'm not even sure that I want to call Will or Clark's situation hopeless. Mainly, because this brings me to the topic of assisted suicide. I'll be the first to admit that I've never opposed the idea. As a middle schooler in the early 90's I was interested in the matter. I gave one of my first ever persuasive speeches in defense of assisted suicide actually. Clearly, at that age you can't imagine the entire context of the topic. Moyes does an excellent job of in my opinion of presenting the topics from many different perspectives. 

We were all surprised by Clark's mother's reaction to her decision to go to Will's side in the end. Most surprising because of her tolerance of Treena's weaknesses and patience of the situation. Not surprising was Clark's father's clear insight into Will's decision. As for Treena, we discussed that without her character, Clark would not have had the groundwork and the strength to manage Will or his family in the manner that she succeeded in doing. Will's father and mother had a failed relationship that was only being glued together by the injury of their son, for whom had little to no regard for either of them. The father's mistress had a compelling attitude about her. We even discussed our imagery of who Nathan would have been in life. Basically, what I'm saying here is that there wasn't a character that was unliked in this story. To add to that, no matter how big or small the characters' involvement to the main story line, they were all relevant in making such a well written story. 

Recommendation: I can't say anything negative about this book. If you may be sensitive to the subject matter perhaps I would not recommend it. Overall, however this was a book that despite the unhappiness and tragedy I completely enjoyed. I couldn't put it down and in the end I cried. That takes a lot to get me in tears over a book. 

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Tuesday, October 1, 2013

top ten book turn-offs



top ten  book turn-offs you encounter while reading

Top Ten Tuesday is an original feature/weekly meme created by The Broke and the Bookish


Each week they post a new Top Ten List topic. If you would like to participate just add your url to their widget and make sure you link back to their blog in your post. You can participate even without a blog. Just make a comment below with your top ten! 

This week a very special friend offered to help me with my top ten. I'm pretty sure it was just a secret ploy to get me active again with my blog. Regardless, I'm very thankful for her suggestions and her friendship. I now give you our joint list of top ten for the week. 

1. Sequels that completely retell the previous novel. Why call it a series if I could read each book alone.

2. Font/line spacing. Especially, the small bold font with horrible line spacing. Would love to read A Suitable Boy someday but I'm sorry, the font is offensive.

3. Cliche character monologue with their "inner self." Yes, Anastasia, your inner goddess is cooler than you. Maybe she should just tell this story, it's not cute anymore. 

4. Insta-love. Barf. Give me something real. Thanks. 

5. Poor editing. Nothing is more irking that reading a great book with grammatical errors.

6. Book characters with similar names. Why would an author do this? Is the point to confuse the crap out of us or do you just not want your characters to be distinguishable from the beginning. 

7. Animal cruelty. Pretty self-explanatory. I just can't handle the subject matter. Even reading Water for Elephants made me want to go ninja kick some circus fools. Don't even get me started on neglect or abuse of family pets in stories. 

8. Love triangles. I just regurgitated that insta-love story I swallowed against my will. 

9. Self-deprivating characters. Bleh. Not entertaining. 

10. A pretentious narrator. It's hard to throat punch someone through the words of a book. So I'd rather deal with these people in real life only. Greater self gratification involved that way.